“Every time when I tried to say something serious, you were either leaving or like a leopard tearing me apart. For the sake of our children, I’ve chosen to listen, to stay, to follow, to do whatever, even to fulfi ll your ridiculous requests. Because of you, I lied to my family, my cousins. You scared away each cousin who came to visit me because you always asked me to borrow money from them. They did what they could because they are all very kind to me but none of them is fool enough to lend twice. And you’ve never returned any money to any one of them. Anyone!”